Whut?
Uhmm...
Mhh...
Then there is a big obstacle.
He seriously asked you some questions before
I believe you.
But i don't recall any serious question.
The problem could be that you and i can't see when each other are serious or not. I see darwoth avoid my questions all the time, usually. I ask him some serious question and he doesn't answer.
His "questions" sounds like if he's just trying to fooling me with the only purpose to say "i'm cool", so i ignore those and i try to get to the point. Those doesn't looks like real questions.
A sort of never ending loop where no one of us take into count what the other says, probably, since i suspect he feels the same towards me.
A filter. Maybe a cultural, habit, filter?
I was starting to sense the presence of a big "bug" in all these debating, because i could not believe that everyone are used to talk without any purpose. It was too much weird.
Point the finger against something is not a debating (or so is in my habit).
Point the finger and say "You should do this!" is a debating (it involve some suggestion or some ideal that lead the debating. It doesn't need to be deep, but a rough idea usually pop up anytime there's a debating of any kind).
I'm always missing the "You should do this!" part from darwoth posts. From many US posts, actually.
What's weird is that i CAN see that from TotallyMeow posts though. I respect your way to express yourself, even if i often disagree. So i believe you when you say that i'm missing the questions or the answers.
That's the opposite of what i want, so it's not good.
I'll try to find someone to help me pinpoint the problem. That's indeed a wall i would crush to be able to talk with foreign people.
At this point i can only say that my intent was positive, if you want to believe me, but my knowledge in foreign habit is too scarce to decipher you enough.
I've probably gained you're hating by this time, but i don't regret what i've tried to do. There are not other ways to know things, only try and see if it works.