Salem

I couldnt find any info on what skills are required to build a well except on wiki is says Masonary, I already have that but the build well option isnt there, anyone know?

Do you have pulleys and levers?

Yep have that too

Wonder if I also need prospecting, using another character for that side of things.

Well, you need prospecting anyway, since you can't place the well without seeing well spot, and you can't see it without actively prospecting

I got mine just built, I think masonary plays a part, I also have mechanics and levers and pullies. you'll need that **** for a loom anyways

I think you might need Humble Abodes to build Wells

Masonry and Prospecting