Am I the right kind of player for this game?

So I dabbled a bit with Salem last night but with a bit of a misunderstanding - I would need to start over again. I've been reading more about the game today and I am starting to wonder if I should really try getting into this game - I was hoping some players could help me decide one way or the other.
What really intrigues me about this game is the crafting system - it seems to be a nice blend of challenge, mystique and fun. The skill system w/ proficiency and humors seems really cool too. The exploration, building, hunting creatures all look like great fun!
What is worrying me is permadeath & getting raided. Basically the pvp stuff. Yes, I am a carebear when it comes to games, unless it is a FPS style game where losing doesn't cost you anything. The amount of time you can lose as a result of dying or getting raided in this game seems to be dramatic. And being a casual player not able to spend multiple hours every day would leave me very disadvantaged and open prey throughout my entire playing life.
So, based on my concerns above are you rolling your eyes and thinking I really don't belong in your game? I should go back to playing Minecraft? (actually, I never did play that game, I hate retro graphics!)
P.S. anyone recommend any other similar-ish sandbox crafting games which have less pvp?
What really intrigues me about this game is the crafting system - it seems to be a nice blend of challenge, mystique and fun. The skill system w/ proficiency and humors seems really cool too. The exploration, building, hunting creatures all look like great fun!
What is worrying me is permadeath & getting raided. Basically the pvp stuff. Yes, I am a carebear when it comes to games, unless it is a FPS style game where losing doesn't cost you anything. The amount of time you can lose as a result of dying or getting raided in this game seems to be dramatic. And being a casual player not able to spend multiple hours every day would leave me very disadvantaged and open prey throughout my entire playing life.
So, based on my concerns above are you rolling your eyes and thinking I really don't belong in your game? I should go back to playing Minecraft? (actually, I never did play that game, I hate retro graphics!)
P.S. anyone recommend any other similar-ish sandbox crafting games which have less pvp?