Misogyny in online gaming

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Re: Misogyny in online gaming

Postby MagicManICT » Wed Apr 24, 2013 6:46 am

I think some of that has to do with the games publisher/management. Some companies don't put up with it and will quickly permaban accounts that get complains of any severity level. Three Rings (Puzzle Pirates, Spiral Knights) won't put up with any and will issue a 30 day ban on a first offense and a permaban for the account on the second.
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Re: Misogyny in online gaming

Postby ysbryd » Wed Apr 24, 2013 7:13 am

Look guys, the women on those sites are the most vocal, not necessarily representative of the whole gender, and probably had some experience that they have decided to take out on all of you, so please dont tar us all with the same brush.
I know I am one of the less common female gamers, but I understand that this is a male dominated world, and I dont want you to change how you are just cos I am here.
Just accept that we are all basically the same, with some evolutionary biases, and that at the bottom line we are all human, we all have feelings, and we can all be hurt, sometimes by the stupidest of things.
I think the biggest problem is that on line the person on the other end... doesnt really exist? Its just words on a screen, and so we can discount their feelings and do what we want.
Fact.. its not a nice world out there, and at some point we have to man/woman up to it and filter out the real **** from the bullcrap that doesnt matter.
Dont sweat the small stuff.
(and yes i agree that there is a movement towards it being acceptable to laugh at mens pain, and its wrong to laugh at ANYONES pain)
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Re: Misogyny in online gaming

Postby Siobhan » Wed Apr 24, 2013 7:27 am

During the most recent webcast, it was asked "will there be skirts for the female toons" (something like that) and the response "Girls play my game?

I think the original post is very close minded, good thing about the net is if you dont like it, turn it off.

What i dont like is when people judge an entire gender based on a few loud voices.

some women are insecure
some women are *****

Not all women are insecure
Not all women are *****

Its like saying Colesie is a pimple headed skinny assed hoover and says Eh alot

just cause hes young, and from Canada.
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Re: Misogyny in online gaming

Postby colesie » Wed Apr 24, 2013 7:42 am

Siobhan wrote:Its like saying Colesie is a pimple headed skinny assed hoover and says Eh alot

just cause hes young, and from Canada.

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Re: Misogyny in online gaming

Postby CockyBastard » Wed Apr 24, 2013 10:07 am

Siobhan wrote:During the most recent webcast, it was asked "will there be skirts for the female toons" (something like that) and the response "Girls play my game?

I think the original post is very close minded, good thing about the net is if you dont like it, turn it off.

What i dont like is when people judge an entire gender based on a few loud voices.

some women are insecure
some women are *****

Not all women are insecure
Not all women are *****

Its like saying Colesie is a pimple headed skinny assed hoover and says Eh alot

just cause hes young, and from Canada.

I'm not close minded, I believe the girl gamers should be giving back as hard as they get - Misandry (hatred of men) jokes - can't think of any (I'm hopeless).

Since you all wanted it, I found it, here is the short news synopsis:
http://holygrenade.com/2013/02/interview-the-founders-of-fat-ugly-or-slutty/
This one will turn up the actual page and more media reports on it:
http://www.google.co.nz/search?q=fat%2C+ugly+or+slutty

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Actually, I was refering to the 'boys' who were being overly abusive (not all gaming males) a lot of whom are console gamers it seems, check the article link above you will see what I mean:
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Re: Misogyny in online gaming

Postby Droj » Wed Apr 24, 2013 10:40 am

What a load of rubbish. From my experience, girls in mmo's often get treated kindly with extra special treatment. They love it when guys give them attention, that's why they play those games. And every guy is usually a suck up when they find out 'oh so there's a girl in the guild?!'.

Couldnt expect anything mature to come from console gamers though because typically they're young schoolkids and well if you throw girls into the mix of course there is going to be insults. Its a playground without authority.
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Re: Misogyny in online gaming

Postby Potjeh » Wed Apr 24, 2013 10:52 am

I think it's mostly just plain old trash talk being taken the wrong way. "I'll ***** you up!" is pretty tame when said to a guy, but I can see how a girl might misinterpret it.
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Re: Misogyny in online gaming

Postby jorb » Wed Apr 24, 2013 12:04 pm

Progressives have spent the better part of the past century tearing down and deconstructing every edifice of morality and standard of decent behavior that the West has ever known. Hearing them complain about deficiencies in the levels of social harmony would be comical if it weren't so sad.
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Re: Misogyny in online gaming

Postby alloin » Wed Apr 24, 2013 12:18 pm

I play games with my (REAL) wife and enjoy it :D
We even make sandwiches for eachother :shock: :shock: :shock:
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Re: Misogyny in online gaming

Postby Kandarim » Wed Apr 24, 2013 12:32 pm

I think it all boils down to your first point: the men that use such abusive languages on girls/women abuse other guys to the same extent (except for other choice of words), while those that don't really **** on other guys won't do so on girls either (matter of speaking). Personally, I might be biased since I make a point of never to talk to someone in a way I wouldn't want to be spoken to.

A contributing factor might also be the immature teenagers, because -let's face it-
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