Anton,
It is clear to see that you have some major envy issues here. It's a bit *****, because I never had anything bad to say about you, never had a problem that you were friends with kuku, even giving your pathetic ass perms to one of my towns. You mentioned something about "personal ****" in your post, but failed to highlight exactly what happened, instead you withheld information and twisted **** to make it appear like kuku was in the wrong.
At first all was perfectly fine for months. Then you decide to confess your love and got let down pretty easy, nothing to get your panties in a twist about. Sadly, it wasn't good enough for you, and you decided you wanted to get some sort of delusion fueled revenge.
Nothing interesting so far, but then you start to take action. You kick my alt out of kuku's town, she had a feeling you would do such, and this was noticed, you were kicked, and my alts put back. Even messing with this, it was still okay, you got your characters there freed and left. Still, you wanted to take it further, so then begins the ***** of in-game death threats, attempts to lure and gank and insults.
For brevity sake I wont post all the **** you were saying, but this is a small fraction of what happened over several weeks. After all the insults, attempts to bait for a gank, and trying to turn everyone that was friendly with her against her, you eventually did kill. It was a good death, and in battle, not quitting or suicide. All that was done by her in retaliation was posting this meme that you're so upset about, and this was only done after your attempts to kill.
Ultimately all you really did was turn on your friend and kill them because they didn't love you the way you wanted them to.