Salem

can any one figure out what script i would use to show village members as a different color/icon on the radar?
and maybe party members too..

I don't think you can with enders radar

Also moving to arcana

since ender's radar works by recognizing the 3D meshes being rendered, there is no distinction in it between kin/village people/...

oh that sucks :'(

It's possible, but it would require further hacking of the underlying Java code. It's not something you could do with the .xml file at this point. (It has been requested a few times already.)