I just started the game about 4 days ago but I really like it, I've already managed to get the Alchemy skill, but I'm looking for some safety and stability. Even I'm very active it's hard to keep up development when it's only a small range of resources are available for me. I'm open to anything even to start a new community or so. If you already have a settlement then I can make a new character or one of you could lead me there.
EDIT: After considering the advices about the Tribe I would gladly restart on any other server if somebody wnts to team up.