wallperis wrote:This game is great, but every time we try to play we(me and my frend) get wiped out in couple moths...
That is by no means necessary, you can start with nothing and have a solid town within a few months, IF you did not slack on the defence part, you will also be very safe.
1.) start wherever you land after the tutorial (did you lose your chars, too?!), but only keep this as a temporary base until you're fit for exploring a bit
2.) find a nice place NOT in the "newbie spawning area" around provi, you are more likely to be found there, you seem to not want that ^^
Instead walk a bit west, like 1h maybe, and be sure to be not close to any landmarks.
3.) get your defence up, and try to look poor, a shabby newbie claim that has stone walls, LOCKED gates and a pclaim is not an inviting raiding target
4.) get a town bell (you still need a pclaim, too), brick walls and braziers, and you'll be pretty safe from there on
5.) be careful who you trade with, items can be scented to track you down
6.) do not port home from provi from the open, go inside a house (any house, hovel, church, den,...) or you also risk being tracked
Basically, to get "wiped out in a couple of months" you need to be really cheap on the defence side while putting all your effort into looking rich. ^^
So long as you are not careless, especially on the defence side, you have nothing to fear.
You do need a town bell though (still need the pclaim too) or your pclaim can be removed by a town bell which is not the cheapest way to raid someone but if you look rich, it's an option.